When is it legal to sell your wife?

When is it legal to sell your wife?

 

Imagine you are an 18th century British man. Now imagine you are married to a woman. Now imagine that you can’t bear each other anymore. You would like a divorce, but it’s too expensive. Neither would killing each other seem to be a solution. There is another way out: sell her!

In 18th century Britain it was in fact quite easy to sell a wife. The husband simply had to bring her to the market square with a halter around her neck, arm, or waist. He would then publicly auction her to the highest bidder.

He made a quick speech or pitch before in which he would described his wife with all the gentle humour of a British gentleman: he’d speak of his wife with her qualities and vices and then, he would launch the auction.

When both parties had found an arrangement, they went together, ex-wife, new-husband and ex-husband (and any other participants) to celebrate the completed transaction in a local tavern.

you can’t bear each other anymore : vous ne pouvez pas supporter les uns les autres plus

there’s another way out : Il y a une autre sortie

a halter : un licol autour du cou
to auction : mettre aux enchères
to the highest bidder :  au plus offrant.
gentle humour : l’humour doux
to launch the acution : lancer la vente aux enchères.

 

 

Here is an example of an announcement, from the article Wife Sales by Peter T. Leeson, Peter J. Boettke

and Jayme S. Lemke

 

“Laerdies an’gentlmin, I ax lafe to oppose yer notice… Her’s a good creature… an’ goss  pretty well in harness, wi’ a little flogging… Her can carry a hundred and a ‘alf o’ coals from the pit for three good miles; her can sell it well, and put it down her throat in less ner three minits… Now my lads, roll up, and bid spirited… I brought her through the turnpike and paid the mon the toll for her. I brought her wi’ a halter and had her cried… Now gentelmin, who bids? Gooin, gooin, gooin! I cawn’t delay –as the octioneer sez, I cawn’t dwell on this lot!… Come, say six shilling!”

This auction was conducted in Wednesbury, England’s public market before a crowd gathered in front of the White Lion tavern. (Source)

 

Ladies and gentlemen. Here’s a fine creature. And she’s pretty good in the saddle, with a little flogging. She can carry a 150 pounds of coal from the pit for at least three  miles; she can sell it well, and put it down her throat in less ner three minits. Now my lads, roll up, and bid well! I brought her through the turnpike and paid the man the toll for her. I brought her with a halter and had her cry. Now gentlemen. Who bids? Going, going, going! I can’t delay –as the auctioneer says. I can’t dwell on this lot! Come on, say six shillings!

in the saddle : dans la selle

with a little flogging : avec un peu de fouet

the pit (with regards coal) : de la mine de charbon

Now my lads : Maintenant mes gars

Roll up and bid well : Venez, venez et offrez bien!

turnpike : le péage

paid the toll : et payé le péage

a halter : un licol

 

 

Even if this sounds like a trivial means of divorce, not least because of the way in which the wife is presented as if she were a piece of cattle, some say it wasn’t always such a bad experience for her. Often, being willingly sold out of a sour relationship was a means for her to advance personally or socially.

Some wives were even sold to their secret lovers, albeit mostly only in romantic novels of the time. Nonetheless, a wife would often be sold to a wealthier man, who was able to pay an education for her. This could be a most liberating experience.

a trivial means of divorce :  un moyen banal de divorce

not least because of the way in which the wife is presented : notamment en raison de la manière dont la femme est présentée
willing : volontiers
albeit : quoique
romantic novels of the time : romans romantiques de l’époque

 

 

Subject and problematic :

Nowadays, getting divorced is becoming increasingly easy. There are fewer special conditions or expensive legal fees to pay. It has not always been this easy : a divorce was virtually impossible for the average couple in 18th century Britain because of high legal fees – the equivalent of about $20,000 today. This was also a time when a more conservative society would frown upon such immoral behaviour.

Relationship problems still existed and a parallel means of divorce was therefore developed. Hence, during the 18th to the early 20th century, a British man was able to sell his wife on the market. Marriage gave women the status of ‘feme covert’: she became a possession like any other. She couldn’t own anything in her own name and the husband was expected to pay all that his wife and children needed. When they couldn’t bear each other anymore (or when the man needed more money) the decision to sell the woman was sometimes taken. This would supposedly be decided together.

is becoming increasingly easier : devient de plus en plus facile.
There are fewer special conditions or expensive legal fees to pay : Il ya moins de conditions particulières ou des frais juridiques à payer.
A divorce was virtually impossible : un divorce était pratiquement impossible
a more conservative society : une société plus conservatrice
to frown upon immoral behaviour : désapprouver le comportement immoral
in her own name :  en son nom propre
When they couldn’t bear each other : Quand ils ne pouvaient plus supporter les uns les autres plus


 

 


My name is Constance and I’m 18. I have many hobbies. I like to ride my bike and to hang out with my friends. But I’m also a serious teenager with real convictions. I take part in the “one less car” movement, but my favourite subject is women’s rights. Unfortunately, women’s rights continue to be an issue, not only in developping countries but also in our western societies. I have enjoy reading and appreciate Le Deuxième Sexe by Simone de Beauvoir among others. In France, we have had a newspaper called the ‘Causette’ for a few years. It’s dedicated to the women who cannot bear the images portrayed by Cosmopolitan, Glamour and other glossy magazines. In fact, it is more than irritating to see representations of women as being interested only in nice clothes and the right make up. Last month an article by Anne-Laure Pineau appeared in la Causette and it dealt with wife auctions in England during the 18th and 19th century. As history is also one of my favourite subjects, I decided to talk about this fact, which is not really known about nor taught today!

 

 

Hello Constance. In Thomas Hardy’s The Mayor of Casterbridge (see here on Wikipedia) there is just such a wife auction. Victorianweb.org looks at this passage in some detail:

[It has been suggested that] the parties in the transaction (unlike those in The Mayor of Casterbridge) were all well-known to one another, and the husband, motivated by a desire for a quantity of beer, may have been an alcoholic, as Hardy intimates by Susan’s remarks as well as by Henchard’s teetotaling pledge that young Michael Henchard was. The halter around the woman’s neck, a demeaning detail to modern readers, undoubtedly connects the affair with the auctioning off of livestock at agricultural fairs such as that in Weyhill (Hardy’s “Weydon-Priors), held near Andover in Hampshire in the second week of October ever since Queen Elizabeth granted it a charter to do so in 1599.

In the 1997 Penguin edition (revised in 2003), Keith Wilson notes that Hardy copied into his “Facts from Newspapers, Histories, Biographies, & other chronicles” notebook (now in the Dorset County Museum, Dorchester) newspaper accounts of three such sales, in particular the Dorset County Chronicle, whose issues from the 1820s he explored in 1884 in preparing to write The Mayor of Casterbridge. Wilson remarks upon a particular article from the decade in which the tale is initially set:

 

Given the wife’s price and the horse-trading mode of her delivery, one of these entries, dated 6 December 1827, is particularly relevant: ‘Selling wife. At Buckland, nr. Frome, a labring [sic] man named Charles Pearce sold his wife to a shoemaker named Elton for £5, & delivered her in a halter in the public street. She seemed very willing. Bells rang.’ See Christine Winfield, “Factual Sources of Two Episodes in The Mayor of Casterbridge (Nineteenth-Century Fiction 25 [1970], 224-31. (Page 328)

Source: http://www.victorianweb.org/authors/hardy/pva283.html

 

teetotalling pledge : engagement de ne plus jamais boire
a demeaning detail : un détail humiliant
auctionning off of livestock at agricultural fairs : la vente aux enchères de bétail dans les foires agricoles tel que celui de Weyhill (Hardy ”Weydon-Prieurs), qui s’est
granted it a charter :  accordé une charte
in the decade in which the tale is initially set : la décennie dans laquelle le conte se déroule initialement Given the wife’s price : Compte tenu du prix de l’épouse
particularly relevant : particulièrement pertinent
She seemed very willing : Elle semblait très disposé.
Dell Hymes' SPEAKING model defined
Wife selling took place in 18th century Britain.
Married couples would present themselves in the town square and, with or
without the wife’s consent, auction the wife to the highest bidder.
Sometimes, the wife’s lover would bid for her.
The auctions would take place either as a cheaper or more accessible
alternative to official divorce, or as a means to raise funds for a
household in financial difficulty.
The auctions took place further to financial troubles within the couple,
frequent arguments, the presence of a lover or mistress, others upsets
within the couple.
Depending on the circomstances, the auctions were often theatrical. The man would
give a lively sales pitch regarding his wife’s better qualities. She
would participate, or not, depending on the level of consent she had
given to the proceedings.
The negotiations might be rather formal. The initial presentations rather theatrical.
The auction might start with a degree of dialogue or banter with the
audience before becoming more formal as in a classic auction.
These events were, besides being formal auctions that lead with a persuading
sales pitch, a kind of street theatre. This public display of
matrimonial disharmony would certainly draw the crowds!

 

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  • AngloXchange

    The question Constance also asks is “Does such a practice still exist?”. Here’s what she says:

    “Today, we can find a kind of wife auction in Shanghai. It’s more of a super market than a simple wife auction and it’s merely another form of the dating or match-making websites that we know in the west. Little papers are hung in the park, and a quick description is written. Then people come and choose a woman, as in the supermarket. This is not, however, a financial transaction”.

  • Tim

    The author is confusing the 19th century (the 1800s) with the 18th century. However, wife selling took place from the 15th century to the early 20th century (that’s 1900s for the author’s education).

 

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